IB 2 ! put this under my other one!

There are many problems and positions when you think about date rape. Date rape is something that happens everywhere but I am mainly focusing on date rape at ASU. We think that date rape is all bad and it always bad and has to be the guy’s fault, but it’s not true most the time. We always look at date rape as t had to of happened and that the girl would have never said yes, but what if the girls was to drunk to realize she did say yes. When we are drunk we don’t always remember everything so we automatically think he raped me, I would have never said yes. But most the time this isn’t true. Most the time we did say yes we just don’t remember. This is definitely an example of valiant behavior because when you date rape someone you hurt them emotionally. We don’t think that it can truly affect someone but it completely does. It makes women completely change who they are and how they act. Which is really sad when people are drunk and claim rape because that night they probably said yes, but now are saying no and so scared of everything. I think girls need to think more about when they claim rape, and accuse someone of something like that especially when they don’t remember. I agree with everyone and think date rape is not okay, but I know as a student at ASU that a lot of girls get upset with themselves for having sex with some random kid so they claim it was date rape and wasn’t okay. This is a very big topic and they are always two sides because some people say that even if your drunk its not okay to have sec with them, but how are girls suppose to know if we are to drunk that we are blacked out so we can’t have sex. A lot of girls even when blacked out can function fine and you would never think they were drunk. I think this is a big topic and we need to hear and see all point of views.